Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Relationship Killer

The #1 cause of relationship problems? Communication!

The female in the relationship feels that she is not getting enough attention. The male in the relationship is tired of his lady talking and texting on the phone all the time.... but no body says anything. Then, the lady not getting enough attention, goes out and find someone else to give it to her. The man who is not getting attention, he gets it as well. 


So, You read his facebook status, tweet and assumed that he was talking about you or your relationship. Really, he was just speaking of past relationships OR talking about what was going on with one of his friends. BUT you ASSUME that it was relating to YOU without asking about it.

So, she hasn't called you in a few days. You have not taken the initiative to call her either, or maybe you were just busy. Now a week has gone by and she has not reached out to you at all. You assume she is no longer interested with your relationship, so you move on. A week later, you find out that she was in the hospital, phone cut off, or something else going on that prevented her from calling you. Communication. Maybe she was thinking that you were not interested because you were not calling either... Communication. 

When you are learning someone you, you have to communicate, there are things that you may not know about this person until certain events arise. PLEASE, open your mouth and get clarity. Do NOT ASSUME anything.
Communication Kills Relationships

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