I Don't Trust You

I don’t trust you


Ok, its Friday night, you are getting ready to go out with your significant other. You are getting ready and you get a phone call "Babe, I can't make it tonight, working late" Or "something else came up that I need to take care of."

Or maybe you and your boo just finished making love. It's 3am, you are in the bathroom freshening up and you swear you here is phone ring. You listen and you here him texting, pushing the buttons. But when you walk in the bedroom he appears to be sleep. So, you ask him, "did you phone ring?" and he replies "no, babe, come back to bed."

Maybe its Saturday afternoon, you two are talking and laughing, nothing serious, just having good convo. His phone rings, he looks down at it, answers, and walks outside or to another room to finish his conversation. You try to listen in, but you can't tell if it is a business call or personal.

So, is there any point when it is okay to check your Man's cell phone for phone numbers, texts, or pictures? When does trust become insecurity? Does your man have to do anything at all? Do you think you could look through his phone, would he let you? What are the boundaries?

So, your man says that he is going to have drinks at Friday's with the fellas. Your girlfriend calls you up and says, "let's have a girl's night out." You are going to a bar, hey, its right next door to Fridays that your man is suppose to be at, but you don't see his car, but you see two of his friends' cars in the parking lot, do you go and investigate?

We all know that their are warning signs to a cheater, but some of those signs may be misleading and not true. Sometimes you might think your man is cheating and it is not the case. How do you know for sure without ruining the trust and to protect your heart?