Honestly? I was watching a discussion on relationships with Steve Harvey, Sherri, Harper Hill and a few others. Someone made a comment that most women want a "Denzel Washingtong type, pulling up in a Bently with a trunk full of Godiva Chocolate." Is that Mr. Right?" Is that realistic?
Sherri said that she wanted a man who could help comb her hair out. WTH? And Steve Harvey made a good statement: "Ain't no real MAN gonna do that." lol.
But seriously. I through my life, I have come accross females who tell me that they want a certain type of guy. And me, being the accomodating type, have adjust a few things to become "that" type of guy. In the end, it was not enough to keep the relationship together. One person told me "You are a great guy and nothing wrong with our relationship, but I want to date other people." She came back later saying she made a huge mistake and want to be with me... but I don't move backwards... moving on.
There is a guy, married, his wife is a stay at home mother. They have a nice house in the suburbs, 3 kids, 2 cars, 1 van. The husband is college educated, comes from a middle class family. Does not smoke, only drinks socially, does not "hang out" with the fellas, doesn't go to strip clubs, does not curse. No Tattoos. His body is in shape because he works out daily. When people see him, they think "he is a gentleman." He enjoys spending time with his wife and kids at home and other activities with his family or just with his wife.
The wife gets a call from an old "flame" from high school. She hasn't spoken to him nor seen this guy in over 10 years. Why? Because he was in Jail. He has two kids, but the mothers of the children don't want him around. He doesn't pay child support nor does he make an effort to see his kids. He smokes and drinks.
The wife leaves her husband to try to pursue this "old flame."
Before you go crazy commenting. Who is Mr. Right? Its obvious that the old flame was Mr. Right to her. That is who she really wanted to be with. If her husband was Mr. Right, then she would of not been concerned with the old flame. Is it that people tell you that "this" is what Mr. Right is suppose to be and you go along with it because it sounds good?
In fact, some women like "bad boys" and it could be that the "bad boy" is your Mr. Right. I'm just putting it out there... you need to be realistic about who Mr. Right is for you.
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