When dating, how soon is too soon for the first kiss?
You want the other person to like you, you like them, but you don't want to come off too "fresh." Do you care what they say and go for the kiss and hopefully they feel the same way and you have a connection?
Some people say, "no, not on the first date, maybe a small kiss on the 2nd or 3rd date." But where do these "rules" come from? I've been in situations where I kissed someone on the first date and it went well and some that it went bad. The worse is leaning in for the kiss only to be turned away. I've been in a relationship where we moved slow to play it safe and guess what? We both found out that we were moving too slow and neither of us liked the pace, but kept going because we really liked the other person and didn't want to ruin it.
I say, go with your heart. If it feels right, go with it. The worse thing that can happen is that i doesn't work out and you are in the same spot you started in OR things go great and you are happier than ever.
So, do you have "rules" - not on the first date? Kisses only after dates 4 or 5, no entry into my home until dates 6 or 7, can't meet the family until 4 months, etc. How soon is too soon for any of this stuff?
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