A younger lady asked me why is that older men that she dates are always really jealous? I think it is insecurity on their part, not really jealously. They may feel that they need to work extra hard to keep their younger lady interested and not interested in a younger man, but that is on a case by case bases and it is ALL about being secure with themselves.
I have to say, my wife cheated on me and it made me question my worth, my appearance, and all that. I was a huge strike to my ego. I am very secure now.... I have been approached my younger women and I have to wonder the reason for the attraction opposed to a younger guy. So, I guess some men are like, she is 8 years or more younger than me, why is she attracted to me instead of someone her own age?
If you are dating an older man, you should tell him why you are attracted to him. Early on in the relationship, you should reaffirm the attraction that it is sincere. He might think that you have ulterior motives for being in the relationship.
You also need to think about what type of personality you have. Are you flirtatious? Extremely friendly? I had an attractive girlfriend who was very “friendly” to everyone. She always smiled and said hello or started conversations with complete strangers. Some men would think that she was interested in them and then she would have to tell them, “No, I don’t want your phone number, I am in a relationship, I was just being nice.” Some men can not deal with a woman like this, you need to find out what your man is comfortable with.
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